One Year To the Day
Photo Credit to Catherine Roy The gray walls whisper goodbye to me as I walk through them for a last time, making my way down the long hallways to surgery. Or perhaps I am the one extending silent...
View ArticleThe best continuing-ed/ Sabbath-y/ awesome, fun thing you can do this summer
There’s a moment in every area clergy gathering or general church meeting I’ve come to expect over the past few years—it’s that second when there’s a pause in conversation and I begin to look around...
View ArticleBread and Blessing
“I wish I could receive at your church,” my stepson Ben said to me one Sunday as we all prepared for a busy day of worship, Sunday school, and meetings. It took me a minute to connect the dots and...
View ArticleThe Jesus Review: Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the Young Clergy Woman
Into every generation a slayer is born: one girl in all the world, a chosen one. She alone will wield the strength and skill to fight the vampires, demons, and the forces of darkness; to stop the...
View ArticleYour Pregnant Pastor: Ten Things You Should Know
I am grateful that you’re happy for us. Far too many women still face on-the-job discrimination and hostility because of pregnancy. It wasn’t so long ago that it was legal to fire women because they...
View ArticleWalter’s Cigarettes
When I was a teenager, I promised myself that I would never buy cigarettes. A few of my friends smoked, and occasionally someone would offer me a cigarette and I would accept. Fearful of addiction, I...
View ArticleMeet the Search Committee
This past year, every few months, I met with a group of young clergy with the Lewis Fellows. Every time we gathered, we began with a check-in where I got to explain once again: I’m still searching. My...
View ArticleMaking Coffee Kind Again
“Smile, sweetheart, the c*** lost,” he said. Not exactly how I pictured starting my morning the day after the election, the first day into a President-elect Trump world. “It’s inappropriate to speak to...
View ArticleMeet the Search Committee
This past year, every few months, I met with a group of young clergy with the Lewis Fellows. Every time we gathered, we began with a check-in where I got to explain once again: I’m still searching. My...
View ArticleYour Pregnant Pastor: Ten Things You Should Know
I am grateful that you’re happy for us. Far too many women still face on-the-job discrimination and hostility because of pregnancy. It wasn’t so long ago that it was legal to fire women because they...
View ArticleBread and Blessing
“I wish I could receive at your church,” my stepson Ben said to me one Sunday as we all prepared for a busy day of worship, Sunday school, and meetings. It took me a minute to connect the dots and...
View ArticleThe Jesus Review: Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the Young Clergy Woman
Into every generation a slayer is born: one girl in all the world, a chosen one. She alone will wield the strength and skill to fight the vampires, demons, and the forces of darkness; to stop the...
View ArticleWalter’s Cigarettes
When I was a teenager, I promised myself that I would never buy cigarettes. A few of my friends smoked, and occasionally someone would offer me a cigarette and I would accept. Fearful of addiction, I...
View ArticleMaking Coffee Kind Again
“Smile, sweetheart, the c*** lost,” he said. Not exactly how I pictured starting my morning the day after the election, the first day into a President-elect Trump world. “It’s inappropriate to speak to...
View ArticleSomething Old, Something New
Check out new columns in this month’s edition of Fidelia! Back in July, a small group of young clergy women who are unusually obsessed with grammar scooted our folding chairs up to folding tables in...
View ArticleZechariah: In Which God Redeems a Mansplainer
A painting by artist Alexandr Andreyevich Ivanov (1806-1858) Holy One, we come with many things on our hearts and minds. We come with grief and with joy, with heavy hearts and busy schedules. We come...
View ArticleHero
Everyone imagines themselves as the hero of their own story. Especially every child — and I was a child. They all imagine themselves as heroes. That’s not a new thing; it’s like that here in your...
View ArticleYour Pregnant Pastor: Ten Things You Should Know
I am grateful that you’re happy for us. Far too many women still face on-the-job discrimination and hostility because of pregnancy. It wasn’t so long ago that it was legal to fire women because they...
View ArticleBread and Blessing
“I wish I could receive at your church,” my stepson Ben said to me one Sunday as we all prepared for a busy day of worship, Sunday school, and meetings. It took me a minute to connect the dots and...
View ArticleThe Jesus Review: Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the Young Clergy Woman
Into every generation a slayer is born: one girl in all the world, a chosen one. She alone will wield the strength and skill to fight the vampires, demons, and the forces of darkness; to stop the...
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